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 Dark Moon Get-Over-It Spell

 Cast this spell during the Dark Moon.


 This spell will enable you to view a relationship as finished and get on with your new life. Hanging on to the past will itself be a thing of the past!


 You will need:

  1 yellow candle

 2 sheets parchment paper or handmade paper

Green pen crayon or magick marker.

 2 drops rose or rose geranium essential oil

 2 drops sandalwood oil

 A  green crystal,, jade, or green glass

 1 green candle

 Heat-resistant container


 Cast a Circle of protection. Light the yellow candle and repeat:

"I allow (name of ex-lover) to peacefully leave my life.  I am glad that this is so."


 On the piece of parchment, write down all your negative feelings about the ending of the relationship, all the injustices and wounds you felt you were dealt. Do not hold back. Let your emotions bleed into the spell (figuratively speaking of course). Weep or wail if you wish-this is the time for grieving, and take as long as you must. When you have completed your grieving and calmed yourself, sprinkle the oils over the paper. Light the green candle and hold the parchment and glass bead over the flame.


 Repeat three times:



 "Let all fury, anger and despair depart my heart.

 (Name of ex-lover) is free to leave my life.

 I now allow the winds of change to bring my good fortune to me."



 Place the paper and glass (or stone) into the heat-resistant dish and allow the paper to burn down into ash. Feel the pain of the relationship burning away; allow the flames of anger to die down to embers, then ash. When cool enough to handle, place the glass keepsake to a body of water such as a river, lake or the ocean, and throw it into its depths.  Walk away and do not look back. If there is no body of water near you, you may bury the stone in the Earth.  Allow the spell ten days to work.